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                                     Board Of Directors                                                    Book Review from page 8

                                                                                                           priests from marrying did not take hold until the eleventh
                May 2021 – May 2023 Officers/Executive Committee                                           century, while marriage was deemed to be a sacrament
                                                                                                           only in the twelfth century. She renders a rich narrative
         Chairman and President  Barry J. Haberman       District 5 Howard Weinstein (El Dorado)           and catalogue of offensive behaviors and the severity of
         Vice Chair          Steve Retzer                   Esplanada, Caravelle, Palomar, La Corniche,    their punishments that have been recorded for posterity.
         Secretary           Steve  King                    and El Dorado                                  These punishments can be interpreted as examples of sado-
         Treasurer           Harvey  Kaplan              District 6 Connie Murray (Villa Flora)            masochistic practices known as “sessions,” “scenes,” and
                                                            Villa Flora, Montego Bay, Villa Del Sol, and Palladium  “games” in contemporary parlance.
         District Directors                              District 7 Alan Markoff (The Plum)                   BDSM is a system of mastery and control, which
         District 1 Mary Ann Frazier (Palms)                The Plum/Cortina, Villa Sonrisa and Pointe 100  occurs in the bedroom as well as in society outside.
            Encantada, Valencia and The Palms            District 8 Robert Cornell (Costa Brava)           One recalls the mantra utterance of Meta founder Mark
         District 2 Steve King (Imperial Royale)            Costa Del Sol and Costa Brava
            Promenade, Imperial Royale, Imperial, Regency   District 9 Robin Gliboff (Edgewater)           Zuckerberg at the conclusion of meetings: the shout
            and Panaché                                     Edgewater Pointe Estates and Stratford Court   “Dominance”. In an age of noblesse oblige, the practices
         District 3 Harvey Kaplan (Meridiana)                    At Large Directors                        allowed or assumed by the aristocracy contained clear
            La Mirada and Meridiana                                                                        abuses. The most common reference is to the so-called le
         District 4 Michael Ehrentreu (El Viento)  Through 2023              Through 2023                  droit de seigneur, the practice of allowing the feudal Lord
            El Viento, La Paz, and Southwinds    Chandra Stewart-Keith (Panaché)  Barry J. Haberman (Encantada)  of the Manor, the first right to the nubile virgin brides
                                                 Bob Greenstein (Lakes of La Paz)  Marvin Lazarowitz (Villa Del Sol)  in his demesne. Professor Harvey debunks the notion
                                                 Steve Retzer (La Mirada)    Carsten Bethge (Valencia)     arguing that it was, in fact, rarely utilized. Nevertheless
                                                                                                           the records show that knights for example often saw their
                                                                                                           status as privilege to have their way with low born ladies
                                                                                                           without consequences. Indeed Professor Harvey points to
                                                                                                           the different standards applied in sexually compromised
                                                                                                           situations, the man would be forced to marry his partner;
                                                                                                           though the claim that the woman was his social inferior
                                                                                                           would negate that obligation to marry her, and she would
                                                                                                           be whipped and he merely fined.
                                                                                                              Christopher Vaccaro has organized a baker’s dozen
                                                                                                           of scholarly essays exposing the subtext of social
                                                                                                           sadomasochism, fetishism, early Queer consolations,
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                                                                                                           Queer, or transgender gained currency. Yet the scholars
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                                                                                                              The suffering of Christ rendered Him as the icon and
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                                                                                                           from that example.  The ritual prostrations of abject
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                                                                                                           the Savior as her dominant partner, and she abjectly
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        ●  Cabinet damage?                                                                                 of Penance according to the manuals produced at the
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                                                                                                           played an important role in the discipline of sinners.”
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                                                                                                           derived from medieval times, such as the rack, shackles,
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                                                                                                           of one human being to the willfulness of another, even
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                                                                                                           his Dominant lady, Lancelot before Guinevere, Troilus
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                                                                                                           obeisance and suffering. These can be connected to ideas
                                                                                                           about human nature put forth by Hobbes, Kant, Freud,
                                                                                                           and Foucault, and further illustrated in contemporary
                Everyone deserves a doctor who they                                                        headlines of sexual abuses by heads of movie studios,

                                                                                                           Chief Officers of television stations, and even Presidents
                     trust and like. One who listens and                                                   with consenting or non-consenting partners. The Marquis
                                                                                                           de Sade in his eighteenth century pornographic novel
                   takes their time to answer questions                                                    allows his heroine Justine to be reminded by her captors
                                                                                                           of grim necessity: “You must serve our interests, your
                 and address concerns. A doctor who is                                                     poverty imposes this yoke upon you, and you have to
                                                                                                           adapt to it.”
                                                                                                              Juliana Dresvina argues that little effort was made
                   available when you need them most.                                                        to understand the psychodynamics of female sexuality,
                                                                                                           besides suggesting that upper class marriages of

         I provide proactive, preventive, wellness & sick care to                                          convenience tended to be pre-arranged and loveless.
                                                                                                           That is why adultery would be attractive and celebrated
         adult patients at my concierge medical practice.                                                  in the literature. For all the talk of le droit de seigneur,
                                                                                                           upper-class husbands were typically well beyond their
                                                                                                           prime and probably responsible for their wives’ frigidity
         To discuss your health needs, and my care model, you                                              or indifference.
                                                                                                              Nevertheless noble women as well as ordinary

         are invited to a complimentary meet and greet with                                                women were subject to continual sexual indignation. The
         me - by video, phone or, when the pandemic permits,                                               unscientific medieval period was ignorant of so much,
         in-person at my practice.                                                                         including a woman’s sexual anatomy about which male
                                                                                                           authors showed little interest or objectivity. The Humours
                                                                                                           Theory, the prevailing sociological and psychological
         Please call 561.368.0191 to schedule your meet and                                                dogma, taught that women’s humours were cold and moist
         greet with me. I look forward to meeting you.                                                     and she likely was always eager like a man. The literature
                                                                                                           of the time shows that upper class woman were able to
                                                                                                           maintain control and not so much the victim of tyrannical
                                                                    Steven E. Reznick, MD, FACP            abuses suffered by lower class born; such was Patient
                       Recognized as a “Best Doc”.  Practicing in our community since 1979.                Griselda depicted in Chaucer’s tale as pathologically
                                                                                                           submissive to the unfeeling and arrogant Marquis of
                                                                                                           Saluzzo, a parable perhaps of submission to divine will.
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