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January 2023                                                             January 2023                                                   PGA C.A.N.!, Page 9
      The Magnificent Ms. Marie – Part I




      A Tribute To A PGA National                       entire 10-doctor, multispecialty group clinic, a position she   their unique love story in an effort to care for one another
                                                                                                           through difficult times.
                                                        would hold until a very special event in her life would take
      Neighbor                                          her in a new and exciting direction.                  In  2000,  over  two  decades  after his  initial  health
                                                           During her ascent up the career ladder in a medical clinic,   scare, Norm passed away from a rare disease called PSP
      By Dr. Jordan Jensen,                             people would sometimes ask Marie: “When are you going   (progressive supranuclear palsy). Marie never remarried,
      PGA National Resident                             to grab one of those doctors to marry?” But Marie never   and keeps a life-size portrait of Norm, which she painted
         I want to thank Ms. Marie                      had any desire to marry a doctor. They were too busy and   herself, close by as she carefully guards her true love’s
      Pinschmidt for her kind—                          married to their careers. But that was before she met and fell   memory deep in her heart.
      and glowing—article about                         in love with Dr. Norman Pinschmidt—an ophthalmologist      Theirs was a rich and authentic love story that Marie
      my  work  on  Self-Action                         in the group. In her own words, “I did not want to marry a   speaks of tenderly and unapologetically. She further credits
      Leadership last month in her                      doctor; but Norm changed my mind!” Thus began a beautiful   her progress as a painter  and writer to Norm’s loving
      column “Let Me Tell You…”                         love story that would endure for nearly four decades prior to   encouragement. After all, he was the one who urged her to
         Since moving into PGA                          Norm’s passing in 2000.                            pursue painting lessons upon hearing Marie express interest
      National back in 2021, my                            Marie and Norm were married in Southeast Ohio in   in pursuing her talents in the field. That encouragement and
      family and I have had the                         1961. They adopted two children—a son and a daughter—in   support would last the rest of their lives together—and on
      privilege of meeting and                          their first few years of marriage. In 1965, Norm joined the   up to the present day—as Marie continued (and continues)
      becoming friends with  Ms. Marie Pinschmidt       prestigious Ochsner Clinic in New Orleans and later became   to blossom as an artist and author. Marie explains that it was
      Ms. Pinschmidt. I recently                        a full professor of ophthalmology at Tulane University   hard to learn how to paint at first and she often considered
      published an article about Marie on my professional blog   Medical School. It was in these favorable and prosperous   quitting. She said one day she came home from a lesson in
      (freedomfocused.blogspot.com) that I’d like to share with   circumstances in New Orleans that the Pinschmidts would   tears, but Norm always encouraged her to keep going.
      our neighbors here in PGA National. I hope you will be as   live and work for the next 11 years.
      inspired as I have been by the life and career story of this      But, as is often the case in our mortal journeys, life throws   See The Magnificent Ms. Marie – Part II next month
      remarkable woman, who has worn many hats over the course   us “curve balls” that inevitably interrupt the peace and/or
      of her 94 years in this world. These hats include: wife, mother,   prosperity that we work so hard to obtain and sustain. In   Reminder From
      musician, business professional, painter, writer, neighbor,   1977, life threw an especially painful sinker the Pinschmidts
      friend, and now my unofficial Florida Godmother!  way when Norm had a heart attack and subsequent stroke that
         Marie Bush was born in 1928 in Southeastern Ohio, where   affected his field of vision, forced his retirement, and forever   Palm Beach Gardens
      she grew up one of seven children with four brothers and   changed their lives.
      two sisters. After graduating from high school, Marie got her      The next quarter century was markedly different than the   Police Department
      first job at a medical clinic working as an “elevator girl” (an   first 16 years of their marriage as Marie spent the better part
      errand runner). But she didn’t stay there long because she   of her life and time looking after Norm and the children as   Adopt These Habits To
      soon received a promotion to assistant receptionist. After just   caregiver and parent. She details this difficult, but meaningful
      one month, she was promoted again, this time to secretary   part of her and Norm’s life together in a memoir entitled, Life   Prevent Vehicle Burglaries
      and stenographer, a position that required her to learn medical   Interrupted: When the Doctor Becomes the Patient.
      shorthand and terminology.                           In 1978, a year after Norm’s forced retirement, the     • Please lock your vehicle doors every time
         After working at the clinic for four years the office   Pinschmidts moved to Gainesville, Florida, where they lived   – even for a quick stop or at home.
      manager got married and vacated her position, and you can   for five years. In 1983 they moved to Savannah, Georgia     • Never leave items of any kind inside your
      probably guess who the doctors chose to take her place! As   where they lived for several more years before relocating to   vehicle. Hiding items doesn’t work!
      the office manager, Marie took over many general duties   North Carolina. Then, in 1998, they moved to Palm Beach
      including payroll and bookkeeping—long before the days   Gardens, where Marie presently resides.        • At a minimum, if you must leave items,
      of computers.                                        Despite the challenges of caregiving in Norm’s later   place them in your trunk.
         She served as an office manager for a dozen years before   years, Marie’s love never waned, nor did it waver. To the     • Cell phone/iPod power cords, GPS holders
      being promoted again, this time to general manager of the   contrary, her love actually grew deeper as they continued   and other key sets act as neon signs.
                                                                                                              • Park in well-lit areas, stay alert and call
                                                                                                            in any suspicious activities to the police
                                                                                                            department nonemergency number: 799-4445.













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