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                                             The Singles Scene Column                                            ©


                                                          Spend Money to Find Love?

                                                               By Kelly Leary, M.S., THE Florida Matchmaker
         The answer is simple: We have                   Florida, which is when the local daily newspaper did a very positive      $5000+ Sometimes per month, per year, or per number of dates.
      always invested money to find love                 story on my work. Off-line dating services hit the maps BIG at that   Sometimes no photos. Ex: Three Date Rule (no Florida location)
      regardless of our gender. We pay                   moment and so did I. We were presented as an alternative to online   and many others.
      for dates, we pay to look good,                    dating. Take it from someone who is an expert. It is an enormous      $25K to $45K+ Per year -- to work with a representative at a
      and we pay in the form of time and                 gamble and you will risk losing time, money, headache and   “elite” service that may or may not have a rooted local office in
      emotional investments too. We pay                  heartache--not to mention your safety--men or women--when you   Florida. Matches could be national. Ex: Kelleher International.
      for our wins to celebrate love in                  look for love online. Men can be hurt too--and definitely in the wallet.      (Reference for price section and amounts: Cosmopolitan,
      the form of a wedding and sadly,                   It is a gamble just like in Vegas, and you can lose EVERYTHING.  June 2019)
      sometimes, we pay for divorce                         Look up documentaries like Dirty John who met an upscale      Here is the bottom line: When you find your dream man
      when love ends. We always pay                      woman on OurTime.com. He pretended to be a doctor but he was   or woman you will be glad you took the plunge and you chose
      for love one way or the other BUT                  a very BAD guy. Predators love online dating! You can see online   the best service available to you. Upon enrollment (hopefully
      the payoff is the best feeling in the              dating disasters on Date Line, 20/20, or any news channel. Online   in person in a real office), consider your investment a down
      world. We all want and need love.                  dating is dangerous and quality people either don’t like it or cannot   payment on your wedding or on your dream vacation and
      Yet now, more than ever, we have                   be seen online for privacy reasons. It’s embarrassing.  just live it up with your new love life! You will be glad you
      been forced to get smarter because of our potential losses. Dating is      Enter Modern Matchmaking: My business was designed as   started this July by the time the holidays roll around! It is
      riskier today--and sometimes even scary! The times have changed   an online dating remedy and for those who simply can’t or won’t go   a couples world! Our matchmakers are standing by 7 days
      and we must change too. As much good as the Internet has brought   online looking for love (like a doctor, judge, or CEO). We are private,   a week if you have more questions for us. We are happy to
      us--it has come with a VERY high price. People are so programmed   friendly, and local. We serve South Florida and the Treasure Coast. I,   oblige.
      to look down (at their screens) and communicate via social media   personally, have 28 years of experience and a master’s degree in Clinical   Looking forward to meeting you soon in my office!
      and texting that many have lost the art of socializing in person. Just   Psychology specializing in Forensic Studies (profiling). During my   Much Love and XoXo,
      look around at the beach or at a restaurant. People are obsessed   graduate studies, I was lucky enough to find my calling by happenstance      Kelly
      with their smartphones.                            in 1991 in Boca Raton. I worked at other dating services over the years      #CallForMoreScoop #SummerLoveIsHappeningNow
         Enter online dating: Being an encyclopedia on this industry,   and quickly noted what they were doing wrong and what they were   #LeaveYourComfortZone #Yolo #TellYourFriends
      I remember when online dating first hit the circuits. Not everyone   doing right. I kept the best and forgot the rest. I still cringe when I recall      Kelly  Leary   has  28  years  in  the  dating  industry  and  a
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      had a computer and there were no smartphones. And so it began--  what other bosses of mine had done in the past. Many of them still exist   Master’s Degree in Psychology. She has been profiled by
      the evolution of dating went from a kind introduction or set-up like   but they have changed their business name multiple times.  ABC News, The Palm Beach Post, PalmBeacher Magazine,
      our grandparents and parents to everyone jumping on the alternate      To save you time and money, I have also included a price list   South Florida Business Journal, The Stuart News, and other
      bus of online dating, which began around 1995. The theory seemed   of random options. We researched many of these prices to double   publications. All Revolution Dating members are prescreened
      sensible, but there has been a big trade-off in recent years. It is now   check...all in the name of love and all for YOU. Since “matchmaker”   first, including background checks. Professional member
      super easy to cheat or “next.” The divorce rate is up. What started   is now a household term like doctor or lawyer, I thought I would bring   photos are taken by the staff. Revolution Dating is NOT online
      as a way to increase your options has become completely corrupt   you up to speed! Thank me later!   dating or blind dating. In addition to providing matchmaking
      since its inception. Too much. Too fast. Too easy. Now, it’s too      What Finding Love Could Cost in Dollars:  services that make singles “UN-single” through their exclusive
      hard. The online dating system has been severely handicapped and      $0 Free dating sites or sit home alone with no one.  membership, Kelly also holds private singles mixers. For more
      there is no fixing this inherent fatal flaw. Online dating will only      $25+ Some online dating sites. Ex: Bumble, Match, OurTime.   information, please call 561-630-XOXO (9696) in the South
      get worse--especially in Florida.                  See above article for your odds.                  Florida area or 772-932-HERE (4373) on the Treasure Coast
         Was there a time when online dating had better odds? Sure.      $449+ Per month/3 month minimum -- for one date per month.   or visit us at www.revolutiondating.com. All inquiries are
      My cousin met her husband online in Maine 12 years ago. Get it? In   No local office/often in temporary or virtual offices. Often no photos.   confidential.
      Maine and 12 years ago. Online dating hit an all-time low in 2009 in   Ex: Tawkify (California Address).












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