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      The Singles Scene Column                                            ©

      What Type Of Single Are You?                         bars or online dating sites and is rather desperate to find   the 80s), given the right circumstances and opportunity,
                                                           The Lucy Goosey: Typically female. Often found in
                                                                                                           can really have a ball. I see it all the time! I am not even
      By: Kelly Leary© M.S.,                             a partner. Most divorced or never married and age 25 to   afraid to age anymore! Thank you to all my seniors for
      Founder of Revolution                              60. This single jumps from date to date rapidly. They   being so cool and open minded to love/kinship after loss
      Dating                                             confuse the physical aspects of intimacy with love and   of a spouse. It can happen.
         Knowledge is power and                          commitment and are often left with feelings of rejection,      May all of your April Goals come true! Let’s give
      YOU  hold  the  key  to  your                      insecurity, jealousy...because she is rarely...if ever...the   you exciting moments to look forward to this coming
      future  relationship.  Only                        “chosen one.” She will date almost “anyone” who pays   summer. Take a moment to do something solely for YOU.
      YOU  have  the  power  to                          attention to her. This person is, well, desperate. I typically                          Love, Kelly
      navigate the change needed                         don’t meet this type of person in my office and I would   #LoveFest2022  #AimTrueIn2022  #LoveOffline
      on your personal road from                         rather  not  work  with  this  type--to  be  honest.  It  is  too   #WhyBeSingle #TellYourFriends #SheConnects
      SINGLE to TAKEN. If you                            unattractive--as a character trait--and they usually scare
      are in “relationship limbo” or                     people off after one date. They are tough to be with on      Kelly Leary’s career spans a successful three decades
      “in between relationships” do identify what type of single   any level, frankly. I’m sure you know the type. In their   in the love business. In her 31 years of experience, she
      you represent by choosing from the below categories. Do   book of life it is never their fault. Blame games abound.   has watched the dating scene morph drastically with
      this today and take deliberate action toward change. Let’s      The Even Steven:  He  is  a  total  mess.  Commonly   the onset of online dating and she has witnessed a huge
      figure this out, together.                         divorced or never married. Age 25 to 60. He is the male   boom in her longstanding private practice--especially
         The Curmudgeon Single: This type may be single,   counterpart of Lucy Goosey. He wants love and intimacy   post pandemic. With her Master’s Degree in Clinical
      divorced or widowed. Key traits: cranky, negative, grouchy   but  can’t  seem  to  shake  his  past  failures.  This  man   Psychology,  with  a  Forensic  Concentration,  she  has
      and in some ways even unlovable. There may be a sense of   blames women for all his failings and suffers from great   revolutionized the industry. She has been profiled by
      desire for another completely “out of their league” which   insecurity in and out of the bedroom. He may also over-  PalmBeacher Magazine, Stuart News, Boca Magazine,
      exaggerates their bad attitude as they are never satisfied.   compensate for his weakness by seeking multiple notches   The Palm Beach Post  and other publications. Kelly
      Likelihood of resuming a (healthy) relationship is slim to none.   in his head get “EVEN” with the opposite sex...  was also named “Florida Woman” in recent years. Her
      Open to change: minimal. This male or female may have been   trying to desperately make himself “whole” again. He   clients  are  prescreened  first,  including  background
      cheated on or took a large hit in life and never recovered. This   is rarely successful and noncommittal when all is said   checks. Professional client photos are taken in house.
      person can be helped with some therapy or a complete change   and done. Most men like this prey in bars, online dating   Revolution Dating is not online dating or blind dating.
      of attitude. However, a “revolution” becomes less likely the   sites or the social media area. Luckily again, I don’t meet   In  addition to  providing  matchmaking  services that
      longer this person stays single. If this is you, get moving while   many of these social predators in my office. They are too   make singles “UN-single” through their exclusive
      you’ve still got it. As it stands, with no therapy or mindset   happy with the dark side of keyboard dating, which is   connections, Kelly is also involved in the charity
      change this person is undateworthy. Many people online fall   more ominous. Even Steven’s like to operate under the   community sponsoring organizations like The Leukemia
      into this category. They are just no fun to be around, right?   radar of responsible authentic dating.   Lymphoma Society, Furry Friends, and Chasin’ A
      You can make much better use of your time.            The Past Life Blessed: Widow or widower of any age,   Dream Foundation. To get started, simply call (561)
         The HopeFUL Romantic: Luckily “most” of the people   although typically age 55 to 80 plus. This male or female   630-XOXO (9696) or (772) 932-HERE (4373) or register
      I meet are this type of person (yeah). This male or female   had a special marriage. They have grieved appropriately   on her website at
      has felt love in the most beautiful sense of the word. They   and  are  now  ready to find new companionship (not
      have also felt heartache but they continue to love more...  marriage per se). This group does very well in my club
      and they almost always do! WHY? Because they believe in   as long as they avoid comparing their matches to their late
      love AND they know they are lovable. This person knows the   husband or wife. I have seen many widows and widowers
      benefits of love will ALWAYS outweigh the risks. Single,   find love again in my club--and it is SO REWARDING.
      divorced, or widowed of ALL AGES this person has a high   My heart goes out to those who have found the key to
      success rate in my club and the odds are in their favor. This   happy marriage...and I with the “HOPEFUL
      person can be alone but their ultimate desire is to find their   ROMANTICS” that there can be a chapter after a loss of
      forever/grand finale love.                         a spouse. This generation of seniors today (from 60s to

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